How to easily identify what you like in life?
Some distinct few conscious people would easily tell us what they like and really know why they like those things; they are fortunate people who have good self-awareness.
For them knowing their own self is just as easy as seeing their own reflection in the mirror, it’s quite natural.
But for some other it’s not that easy:
“I’m not really sure what I want…”
“It depends on who’s beside me…”
“Ask my friends, they know me better…”
Perhaps you’ve heard that phrases more than once or even quite often.
Yes the exposed world we live in today has blurring our own self; the overwhelming flashes and expectations put other people values and beliefs into our receptive feelings and emotion, so sometime we’re not really sure of our self authenticity.
It’s good to adopt or extract other people wisdom and knowledge to our own understanding, we learn from other people experience, their mistake prevents us make the same mistakes, their successes might inspire us to have a triumph direction, it makes us learn and grow.
But like no two fingerprints are exactly the same, no two persons are exactly the same also, we have more or less a slightly different package with other person, so our needs and wants perhaps slightly different one another too, so it’s better if we’re not passing the responsibility of our well being to our environment.
And it’s more responsible to ourselves and people around us if we aware of our own personalities and inner self, perhaps it will free us from a lot of unnecessary pressures, though sometimes it’s quite hard to communicating or presenting your true self to others, at least you could embrace yourself better.
Well yes sometime a special person understands us better than anyone in the whole lot world, but don’t let his or her lovely ability prevent us from being responsible to ourselves.
Cheers,
Fellow person
(Btw please be advised if you stand or sit close to me for quite some time, I might feel your inner self unintentionally, so approach at your own risk)
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