Senin, 11 Desember 2006

Particular thing in you :-)










Perhaps we have some particular things that only happen to us?



My number one confusion regarding what everybody around me like or even love that I don't is:




I don't like chicken satay with peanut sauce!!!



Since I'm a heavy eater (but apparently without any significant effects to my weight
) I think I could eat almost every dishes imaginable (if the host in Discovery Travel & Living could eat it then I presume I can to)

So some friends of mine trying to convince me that
it's just a matter of mindset or habit, but then I've tried different eating
places (that's why I think I could give advice on where you can find
some good chicken satay around) and in the end the conclusion is still
the same: I just don't like chicken satay!


(well I'm also don't like many things such as clubbing or dishonest people but I believe many other people don't like it neither so no wonder about it)


to illustrate how I feel when I eat chicken satay, it brings strong taste straight to the center of my brain

almost as strong as wasabi taste for me but in a completely opposite enjoyment (for sure I don't have any problem with strong wasabi)


so usually I couldn't finish even just the first or second skewer... damn!




but for
any other satays, well.. I'd love to eat them... a lot!!! so bring it on!!!


















Rabu, 06 Desember 2006

The Golden Rule


















IN EVERYTHING



DO TO OTHERS



WHAT YOU WOULD HAVE THEM



DO TO YOU














Everybody
is unique





…when
we’re a little kid perhaps we feel that we’re the center of universe and
anything else just not us or not me, we just focus on ourselves to maintain our
happy little kid well-being …



(those
good old days…he he…)





…at
the time we grow up, we’ll realized that life is very amazing and beautiful
with so many wonder and magic on it…





…then
we’ll also realized that we share the world with another human being just like us
with senses, feelings, emotion, and so on…





…each
with their own preferences… personality… values… intelligent… habits... dreams… …character… traits… talents… purpose…





…facing
with all of this we could choose to treat people the way we’d like to be
treated with…



…or
not…





…everybody
have their own choices…



…to
make their hearts sing…



(picture of the wishing little girl above taken from Pixar's "One Man Band")






















Selasa, 05 Desember 2006

The Book of Luck

Rating:★★★★
Category:Books
Genre: Health, Mind & Body
Author:Heather Summers and Anne Watson
Do you want to:

Choose Your Own Luck?

Transform Negatives into Positives?

Wake Up to The Potential of Coincidence?

Assess Your Openness to Luck and Your Ability to Benefit From It?

Use Your Potential Strengths to Increase Your Luck?

Trust Your Intuition and Increase The times You Get It Right?

Develop a Good Mindset?

Then Ladies & Gentlemen: create your own luck!!! you have the right to be lucky! and enjoy your life... it's a gift for every human being :-)

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The authors emphasizing these seven principles for being lucky:

1. Control-Ability

It's about choosing and flexing your response to events and situation that arise, no matter how difficult they maybe.

(Less blaming the unkind hand of fate and have more lucky breaks)

2. Stick-Ability

It's about perseverance, tenacity and following things through even when the odds are against you. It's about finishing off what you start.

(Achieving goals no one else thought possible)

3. Risk-Ability

It's about having the confidence to take a chance rather than plumping for the safe bet. It means having an open mind and willingness to think differently.

(More lucky opportunities coming your way)

4. Sense-Ability

It means using all of your senses and feelings to heighten your awareness of lucky opportunities. It includes making the most of gut feeling and intuition.

(Having the confidence to rely on your inner voice)

5. Socia-Ability

It's the knack of relating easily to other people in a variety of contexts.

(More lucky coincidences)

6. Percept-Ability

It's all about how you look at life, events, yourself and others. Is your attitude to life optimistic? Do you shrug off (small) worries and concerns?

(Ability to turn bad luck into good)

7. Person-Ability

It's about knowing yourself well enough to recognise what works well for you and what can work against you.

(Being able to harness all your natural luck skills)

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If you pray for good luck then it'll come to you ;-)



Senin, 04 Desember 2006

Human Emotion














Human emotion





While humans are not always
thinking (*yea rite) we’re always alert and aware of any
emotion-provoking stimuli around us.





Over the course of a
typical day, we’ll experience a wide range of different emotions.



An item in the news may
provoke anger, a favorite piece of music may elicit joy, and disagreement with
a close friend may be distressing.





Without emotion, our world
would be numb, grey, and lacking in meaning or motivation





Human have powerful
emotional responses to a huge range of things, from personal life events to
watching our favorite sport team





For example my emotion
could be ‘stimulated’ just by watching magnificent start of an F1 racing (go
Kimi go!),

or by just a glimpse of a fine looking girl browsing in a good book
store (*imaginary conversation, me: sendirian aja mbak? (jayus)... she: loh sama
mas kan jadi
berdua? (lebih jayus lagi)…he he…)





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Some 'popular' human
emotions that serve our 'human survivability' in some ways according to Ms Claudia Hammond (author of emotional rollercoaster book):





Joy





Sadness





Disgust





Anger





Fear





Jealousy





Love





Guilt





Hope



















Sabtu, 04 November 2006

Mariana Renata




my "second option" ;-p

Subconscious Mind





Some say that it's
"the one" that really pulling our strings in life.





The one that we’re not
really aware of, because it lies deep below our consciousness.



They say that sometimes when we deciding something important in our life it
will become the dominant factor determining our decision, without we even
realized its influence


(perhaps when choosing a wife or husband, choosing to be happy or miserable,
supporting our career or "sabotaging" it, shaping our taste preferences, and so on & on..).





In
my opinion we could “modify” our current subconscious mind to harmonizing it
with our conscious mind.

Maybe it won’t be easy but it’s possible...





So
there’ll be no conflict of interests between parts of our mind..





...

And
we could live life the way we choose to be..